SP- I totally believe that your wife does have NPD. My mother seems to lean towards it (I hate to say it outright). It's all about her and her wants- ah, *gasp*-"you mean your not going to do what I want?!", instant tears, martyr role, evil daughter for not complying with mother's every whim.... I am reading some great books on how to deal with the mother with NPD. FOr some reason the sons seem to grown up ok but the daughters get manipulated or put down or criticized, verbally attacked, etc. Please watch for your daugher-built her esteem up ok- narc mom's seem to tear daughters down....
Last edited by june72; 06/17/1011:17 AM.
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)
