I have to agree with CityGirl. He's not visiting a friend to chat. He's getting some stuff, and should leave when he has found what he wants. If he wants to talk longer, then I would play it by ear, but perhaps you should keep it short, listen and give one word answers, i.e. 'yes', 'no', 'maybe', 'really', etc.
Good luck.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim