Try not to take all of life events as an attack...they may be at times, but lots of things are just wrong place wrong time. Look for that positive thread and cling to it. Hope will get you further.
Mabye the peditrician made the call because of your wife's history. Maybe not. Does it matter? It isn't your wife's fault. Laugh about it together...it is over and the most important thing is that your daughter is SAFE!
I see what your saying and yes of course the most important thing is DD is safe. I plan on asking the Doc for a copy of the medical records AND speaking to her in person about exactly what led her to the conclusion she made. For me personally it definetly matters WHY and HOW a trained professional made the seemingly unexplainable leap from a routine UTI to " possible molestation". And just an FYI, I dont know now and wasnt present obviously, but up till today I have no reason what-so-ever to beleive that our DD's pediatrician would have ANY idea about my WAW's history.
The bottom line is this report could have had grave, immediate and permanent consequences for ME. And someone owes me an explanantion of why.
I predicted the WAW would file a phony TRO against me when she learned I filed for custody and I was right. I even have a copy of the non emergency call I placed to the dispatch center I made 24 hours before she did so, after a particularly nasty argument. Several people, including certain of WAW's family members have acknowledged that WAW lies when scared and is prone to exxageration. Given the way the earlier get together went and the odd avoidance behavior later the same day , I actually told someone I know that I feared another set up concerning this latest incident an hour or so before I got the phone call about what was possibly suspected.
A review of DD's medical file will certainly shine a lite on any comments made by WAW to the Doc. I hate to admit or think about it, but if my instincts were in fact correct and it turns out that WAW made "suggestive " comments to the Doc to steer her towards a predisposed conclusion, as part of a ploy to get the kids from me, the medical records file should reveal this. And IF I find that out, then I have to honestly say I will go to war for certain. There are certain lines one simply doesnt cross, and insinuating someone of such a heinous act is definetly one of them.
