Divorce in 1 month Help with exposing please need

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Allen... she lives a hundred miles away.

She wanted to know how i knew that the O/M mother went to sons birthday party.
I said a wonderful person told me.

She started naming people that i didnt even know was their and telling me that she is cutting them out of her life and that she hates them.
I just told her that im not going to tell her.

Then she threw out another name and started saying that she is a big mouth bich and she is stirring the pot and playing both sides. She said if anything im warnning you she is not what she seems. Im sorry for looking out for you.

This was not the person that told me she is so screwed up in the head she does not even know who to trust any more.She is cutting off relationships with people who dont know anything.She thinks everyone is on my side and telling me things she does not know who to turn to now.

It is pretty sad that she is cutting out some really good people that love her just because she thinks they are talking to me.

She thought for shure i was going to show up at the event butt i never made it down i had a freind that was their tell every one whats going on and the O/M did not make it their this weekend. Her mother was trying to run damage controll that people knew that MIL is a liar.
Im so glad that ive allways been their for people when they needed my help and they know im a stand up guy.

Then she started getting mad and i told her, That she owns the guilt 100% buy the choices that she has made so leave me and the son out of it and just let me move on.That she needs to stop making me out to be a bad guy i just want to be a good dad to our son.

I told her im done with her drama im tired of her being mean to me every chance that she gets.I asked her if it helps her sleep better doing this to her sons father, I told her i dont deserve the meanness so stop
I do not need you to keep telling me things so you can feel better about your self. Im done so have a nice day.

I did send her a pick of me and the son and said this is all i care about now.
She started complaing what are you trying to make me feel guilty i did not reply back.

Then she texted me back a couple hours later i was not trying to get you into a argument or a fight i just wanted to confirm my theroy . I guess i will never know sorry for bothering you, I was just hoping you could have been mature about the situation. Have a nice day!


She called me to talk to the son tonite i didnt even answer the phone. I just didnt feel like getting pulled into her drama that she is creating with every one that knows her.


I think im going to go dark for the next couple of months on her and treat her like a child and make her work on getting things done.Let her stew in the mess that she has created.Im tired of her trying to justfy her choices that she has made.I will be nice butt im not going to be drawn into the drama that is happening.


Allen... what do you think time for me to step back and let the S!@t hit the fan and let her self destruct?