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Pigskin,

I agree with you for the most part, but I think DBing at this point and approaching the situation from the point of view of Coach, Steve, and others is important since IDU's W is a WAW. The type of communication you mention just does not work completely the same way in a healthy relationship. It is about bringing the R to that point to have the communication flow freely in a very healthy way that is lasting in a better M.