If I confront her, she will just know that I was checking up on her. Could anything good come out of it?
I have a PO for the home. I can't get a PO for the kids because they told me that when the kids are with her, she can allow the OM around her and the kids - it's her choice. Apparently he wasn't shoving my kids around or anything, he just asked them to leave the room and they did.
I believe he is making plans to move his wife out of his house and at that point he will probably invite my wife to move in. Although I'm not sure she really wants that at this point, but it bothers me that she entertains the thought and talks to him about it. His wife has been offered a part time job in another state, but he is making the excuse that a part time job won't pay the bills and he apparently doesn't want to move.
My wife is asking for a divorce and I don't completely understand why.