Well, that's the idea.. you CAN attack the affair by exposing his cheating by texting you to OW... But it isn't likely necessary... My main worry is he's an addict.. He's just gonig to cheat again unless you have a good family therapist lined up
It's not hopeless, but your H has a VERY LONG ROad to walk here... AFTER hte affair is over... THAT is the part I am worried about... You want to know he's not gonig to do this again.. you don't just want him back.. you want a MAN back.. he's just a coward right now... a cowardly, selfish, addict... you don't want that in your home...