And when she tosses him out, YOU have to refuse him entry into teh home... Just because she tosses him out doens't make you plan B... He's OUT until he grows up and starts seeing a family therapist.. he's just turning YOU into OW right now... he's not TELLING her he's contacting you...
HE's an addict... He wants to LIVE with one woman and secretly contact a second... dont' you see the pattern here?