HOld onto them for now... YOu want her to trust him first... and you can't send them, someone ELSE should do it...
Let her get a sense of security first before you turn it upside down...
Seanna, do you have a family therapist yet to send your Husabnd to? Because youc an't just invite him back in when she tosses him out... He has WORK to do ... he has to EARN his way back... If you just let him back in he's going to cheat again... and again... and again...