Hi GAG, thanks for your post smile

"Intimacy and Desire" this book sounds interesting...I will order it.

It make sense to be your H's friend when he is in withdrawal, especially because there is no OW competing to satisfy his emotional needs...he will associate the peasant feelings with you.


M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO