Back story. When I met my husband in '92 he was dating a few people. The OW being one of them.

He broke it off because he tired of her and she and he still remained friends (talking every 6 months or so.) We got married in '95. I would see her number come up every once in a while on his pager (before cell phones) and he would say that she just called to say hi.

Well, years passed (about 8) and I had my first son, apparently she was still incontact with my H I didn't know. Then after my second son was 2, I guess the affair started from what I understand.

He said it was because he didn't get enough attention from me as I was dealing with 2 kids in diapers at the same time etc. I really had no idea that the affair was going on until last year in june when I found the number on the cell phone bill numerous times. I confronted him, and he confessed.and One year later here we are.......

Last edited by seanna; 06/17/10 04:38 AM.
M-43
H-44
M-16 T-19
S-10
S-8
left for OW 6/11/10
came back on 7/5/10 to present
trouble in paradise again....
You know I'm a dreamer.........