Try not to take all of life events as an attack...they may be at times, but lots of things are just wrong place wrong time. Look for that positive thread and cling to it. Hope will get you further.
Mabye the peditrician made the call because of your wife's history. Maybe not. Does it matter? It isn't your wife's fault. Laugh about it together...it is over and the most important thing is that your daughter is SAFE!
