Of course I asked to speak to the WAW and did, and asked her why she didnt call me IMMEDIATELY when the Dr started the line of questions. She couldnt answer at the time and passed the phone back off to the CPS worker, I informed her I would be meeting them at the hospital. I immediately put my mom and a couple other people on full alert, certain I was about to be arrested merely on the accusation, then went to the hospital.
I finally got a chance to speak to the WAW in private, and again asked why she didnt call me immediately and why she said at 4:30 she would " be back soon " very nonchalant, keeping me totally in the dark. She explained it as that when she realized what they were talking about had happened, and given her past history herself, she went into " hyper protective mommy mode" and didnt come to the house or tell me right away because she couldnt figure out a way to tell me without it sounding like she was accusing me of something so despicable. TBH, for the first time in a while, about this single issue, I actually believe she's being honest with her explanation, not that it excuses NOT telling me immediately what the Dr was saying could be the cause.
WAW did say of course she didnt think I had anything to do with it. Which was a huge relief that my worst thoughts ( another vindictive set up ) werent true. It was actually kinda weird in a way, since we both feel so viscerally about this type of thing that we were trading tears and vows of a long, slow, painful death to ANYONE that had touched DD that way.
So, what was the final diagnosis ????? Urinary Tract Infection !!! I had to endure another humiliating " housing check " by CPS, followed me home with DD from hospital. Still have to do a mandatory follow up with another Doc in the next day or two. I REALLY feel like BLASTING her pediatrician !! Which is a shame, we both really like her, so do the kids. Her husband delivered our son, etc. But someone needs to explain to me just how the hell a UTI is chalked up to possible " molestation " !!!!! I am FURIOUS about this !!!
In some really bizarre twist of fate, while we were waiting for the DD to be seen, examined, diagnosed etc ( over the course of three hours and under the "escort" of the CPS worker ) we started BSing about things in general and somehow wound up relating several fun and funny stories and experiences the WAW and I shared back in the good old days. It was nice to see the WAW still remember such things fondly and actually smile while relating our various adventures.
My God , what the hell is happening to us ????? Why does everything seem to be spinning so completely and utterly out of control !??!? Why do we take 1 step forward and 2 steps back ?? Why does some new " crisis" somehow manage to infiltrate our lives seemingly everytime we turn around ???
Why the incessant drama ??????? My life lately sound like the most twisted , sad Country song ever written. Its sooooooo cliche it would be funny if it wasnt so damn twisted and frustrating.
