I just dont get this AT ALL. She SWEARS she doesnt want to fight or argue,
STOP TALKING "relationship" WITH HER. she's not into it. it's not working out. talking about it is not going to make it better. its only eventually going to lead to "fight and argue." It Will lead to "fight or argue." she's living with another guy. he is defintely NOT talking BAD relationship with her and their getting along fine.
that is all there really is to get.
you don't like sleeping with bugs in the woods. what do you like to do? challenge me.