I am a little confused between going dark vs doing the 180. I would never really start a conversation or give her my full attention when we did actually talk. Since we split I did go dark, but read about doing a 180 to change. To me it was contradicting. SO I went on to actually start trying initiating a talk and have even text her. She knows texting is the absolute last thing I would do. do hate it, as one you cant convey tone or simply you arn't talking to someone.I have been doing it. Sending little messages like I used to do when we met, just by text this time.
I know its not supposed to change over night, but it doesn't seem to be working at at. She is not mad and she does reply to most of my messages, but sometimes I will compliment her on something, not sexual or relationship-wise, and she just blows me off. Should I continue or just stop altogether?
Tonight I spent alot of time with my son and youngest daughter playing the wii. She sent me a text that she thank me for spending time with them and then sent another stating good night. Should I respond or say goodnight back? I get so confused on what to do.
Me 31 Wife 34 (Step)D 15 /(Step)S 13 / D 6 Married 3/3/01 Separated 6/4/10 Bomb 6/14/10 Served 6/22/10 EA/PA Discovered 7/5/10 Now Back Together 8/1/10
