BBJ ~ I think it was meant to be funny and witty. I wouldn't delete just yet either. He may have a sarcastic witty humor and I know a great gal (you) that would banter with that well!
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too
The more I think of it the more I agree. Had he 'led' with a comment like that it would be different...however we had already addressed sarcasm and the fact that we both enjoy witty banter.
At 11:20 I am just settling in to read my chapter for class tomorrow and fill out the study guide...ugh! Good thing Dan has the kids tomorrow night so I can play catch-up. Haven't worked out for three straight days now and I hate it! However being up until 3 doing work for class doesn't make you want to get up early and exercise before the kids are up...
Well Dan texted me this evening asking if he could practice baseball with Nathan for a little while. I may have passed on it since he gets them tomorrow, but while I was in class Sydney played outside with the babysitter and Nathan chose to sit on his butt and watch cartoons. So he needed the exercise.
Anyway I replied back that it would be fine we would be at church for a meeting he could come pick Nathan up there. Then he replied back and said "Btw the sorry was for everything."
That narrows it down...I know, ignore right? yeah well...
I chose to respond. I don't believe what he did was ok so I didn't let him off the hook. I said, "Not sure what to say about that except that things did not turn out the way I had imagined when I married you but I am working to make the best out of it".
Really I don't know what else you could say...it isn't like when someone bumps into you in the checkout and apologizes and you say, "It's ok, no big deal." There was no way I could say it was ok, I didn't even say I accepted his apology. The most honest answer I had in mind was, "Given that you are sorry, what do you intend to do about it?" But I DIDN'T bc I didn't want to start up that conversation.
But seriously, I was raised to believe that when you mess up big time, Sorry does not cut it. If you are sorry you take action to make amends. If you break it, you try to fix it or replace it if it cannot be fixed. If you aren't sure how to make it right, you can ask the person how you can make it up to them. To me sorry without actual repentance, or action, is not much...
Oh and Golf Guy caught me on FB and started chatting. Wanted to know what I am up to this weekend as he will be in town. Honestly, I don't want to go. We got together for that party two months ago and he has not tried to reach me since then, by phone, text, fb message, whatever. Granted it says a lot that I haven't tried either. Anyway I don't really want to get together on random occasions when he just happens to be in town anyway (he lives 2 hours from here).
Er...ah........BBJ....aren't you the one who sent a pic of a huge pair of panties to some guy......?
Different context Kimmie. That was R. I have known him since I was twelve...plus we had been working together a lot on speech stuff and had an inside joke about his students catching him at Victoria's Secret (sadly, picking up perfume for his best friend/fellow teacher to give his gf for Valentine's as he was already at the mall)...anyway since he used his credit card there he started getting the catalog...long story but anyway we had a little riff on panties going on already. It wasn't just a guy I had emailed twice that I sent a panty pic to...and they were granny panties at that!
But you are right, it speaks to my playful nature. I just don't 'go there' so quickly with guys I chat with on match and haven't met. I found out last fall if you make a sarcastic/suggestive comment early on many of them jump to conclusions. Three wanted to start having phone sex and or text sex and one, as I mentioned, texted me one day to tell me he woke up hard. Ummmm TMI thanks.
BBJ, again, I think your first impression regarding this guy was right on! I'd move on, he just keeps raising red flags for you and that is important to pay attention to. Again, he's assuming an intimacy that is not yet there and doesn't seem to get what is appropriate for the situation. That is probably an indication of the way the rest of his life is led. Comments on the Porn industry???? Ditch him!
I am so freaking exhausted tonight. I am supposed to be doing another study guide and journal entry but can hardly keep my eyes open!!
Something else weird started happening today. I promise I am not a hypochondriac just going through weird crap!
So I had the flu 3 weeks ago...then bronchitis...now today I am having terrible fits of nausea and dizziness. I was headed out to pick up kids from daycare after class today and was overcome by nausea. Was able to control it until I got back home and then I threw up several times. I was also dizzy the whole time, motion sick basically. Kind of like after you go on a ride at an amusement park, when you get off you can feel woozy...
It got better after about 20 minutes after I threw up.
After Nathan's ball game I ran to Target, was excited to pick up some Chinese from a new place on the way home. Well somewhere in the 20 minutes it took to to through target started feeling that motion sickness again. Got the food through the drive through, but now that I got home I am so nauseous again I don't want to eat. And yet I am starving? I hate feeling dizzy. No clue how I am going to get my work done when all I feel like is lying down and sleeping...
Sadly, I love all those, but have had to give up liver and lower my shellfish intake because of my elevated uric acid levels that cause gout. I still buy beef liver, but only use if for catching crawfish - it is like crack cocaine to them.
