Ooooh, Yes! I get I would be the one to lead him to B if I don't cut him off completely. I will not offer A in any shape or form. You are such a big help!!
Keep reading the protection phase book, its got a lot of good ideas in it...
As long as you let him eat your cake, he's not going to CHOOSE his marriage or to end his marriage, he's NOT going to choose when he can have both...
Remember you aren't asking him to choose you or OW, its choosing to be PART of his family or to DESTROY his family... thats teh choice.. and an ugly one for him right now given the affair...
