I just thought that if he even sees me at work or something, it would blow the no contact. i want to make myself invisible. I reeeeeeaaaallly want my marriage to be busted from this. I don't want to mess up anymore. So if he comes over just don't answer the door? Pretend I'm not here? what if he knows im here? Tell him to leave or would that be considered contact? It's contact right? Just ignore him and be a vapor.
NOW you are starting to PLAN and realise how HARD this is gonna be... not just to keep him away, but for YOU to NOT CONTACT...
And yes, telling him to go away is contact...
you need to get someone to run interference and to tell this guy to get lost until he grows up...
PLAN AHEAD.. HOW are you gonna protect yourself at work?
