With the examples I was referring to when you stated...IMO it is time for you to start turning things around a bit.

I'm nit sure how to take the advice given. I have DB'd for months to get to a point where W would start coming around and doing things with me and now it is being suggested I do less things with her.

I have started and will continue to call W out when she uses sounds or communicates to in a negative way.

M: 27, W: 25
Together since: 01/31/00
M: 10/4/09 (8 Months)
ILBNILWY: 01/24/10
EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted).
Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10
Retrouvaille: 09/10/10