Look I just read your last few posts, why rock the boat? Are you enjoying yourself? Sounds like she doesn't mind spending time with you and you get some alone time too and maybe this is what you both needed, I think you should continue doing what you're doing, it's working, she's spending more time with you, she wants to be around you, she's inviting you to places and her family's home, she feels more comfortable around you.
If it ain't broke, don't fix it.
Let it be.
This is a good thing for you. This has given you time to examine yourself and your life and to improve areas that required improvement without the pressure of having to do those things to win your wife, you did them because it's your life to live.
Dates are good, enjoy the sex and just enjoy the time you have.
If this really isn't enough for you, continue living your current life just don't be available for her when she asks you out or wants to come over, be somewhere else.
