Note : Sugar and Spice was by today and made a very simple comment to the effect of the protection phase...

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022241#Post2022241

This more or less summs up protection phase well... It does work and has a good success rate when done well... if you flip flop it doen'st work...