Not sure which way to go anymore

[june72]

Mystik,
you have to work on your negative thought patterns- is it helping? What are you doing to make yourself happy?

You think you almost had hubby back- many of us think you were only a convient option for him to leave the OW and help with finances. I really do not believe his intentions earlier were sincere- if they were why would he continue to live with her till the lease is up and then move in?


About your therapist- if you feel you need to be committed than you just go to the hpspital and be committe4- you do not need your therapist's ok on this.... confusing to me. I would think that if a person is asking to be committed they should be committed.


Here are some facts-
You are a person outside of your husband
What your husband is doing is hurtful to you and your son
You are not paralyzed in this situation- you do have choices
There are other men out there that would love to be with you
You will not always be unhappy- you will be happy again
You will heal and overcome this

Of course your own behaviors and actions will dictate how quickly you can return to happiness.


Where is your list and goals?
ie, Get through one day and use thought stopping techniques about hubby, play outside with my son, clean out the hall closet, anything....