New to this Community seeking advice

[MichelleLT]

Whether it's because it's what she wants or what she needs, it's what you need to do right now.

It's a tough line to walk trying to give her space while not letting it interfere with your relationship with the kids. But you can negotiate it I'm sure.

How long can you wait before you need to get the dates nailed down for your next visit? Can you get the kids school start dates from them?