I'm here for support. I can't give very good advice as I have made many mistakes. My sitch has improved somewhat, but only after having the courage to listen to Coach, Puppy, and others and doing what seemed to be impossible at the time. I can't quite turn the corner; maybe because I'm not detached enough and still a little scared.
Anyway, listen to the wise counsel that you are getting. You will save yourself much grief if you do the hard work now instead of letting build, along with your stress level, and get yourself in deeper trouble.
