What would encouage "you" to send flowers to another man's wife?
I know these men want to "attack" the OM.....and I'm not disagreeing with what they say, okay? That's just the way guys think. But the way I look at it is that it's your WIFE that's the problem. She should have no trouble discouraging OM's advances, if she really wants him to stop.
Yes, she's having an EA. Would she "cry" and "cough up his name" if she wasn't? Do you really think she would go out for beers that often rather than being with her H?
Yes, you need information before acting. Absolutely! I also think people need to do what they feel they can live with. Is this a deal breaker? Would a PA be a deal breaker? Need to think about it, b/c if it hasn't happened already.....it's close.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
