What is the percentage distribution of the income?

In my opinion the fairest thing to do is NOT to split responsabilities but distribute income to expenses proportionate to income

If your husban'ds annual income is say 75% of the household income, he should be covering 75% of groceries, movies, gifts, etc across the board, and you should cover the other 25%

BUT... since you are doing household responsabilities this goes ou the window...

I dunno, I just don't like this whole setup... It's a throwback to medieval times.. That's it, why not take the whole family to Medieval Times for dinner! smile