Guys, what you're all saying makes really good sense to me. I'll start doing my best to focus on myself, enjoy some freedom, and at least in my mind start to move on with my life as if she's never coming back. That way at least I won't be starting from square one if she files for divorce down the road.

Thank you all so much!

Last edited by Mike.4545; 06/16/10 11:17 PM.
M: 29, W: 28
Together 8 years, Married 1 (5/16/09)
Bomb (LYBNILWY)4/22/10
Affair discovered 5/3/10, began Jan/Feb 2010
Separated 5/22/10 - Present
Affair exposed 7/7/10
No children