You did a big 180 and it did the job by shocking your W. Now she wonders if you may be ready to call it quits. Be prepared for her asking some questions about that. Don't discuss the R at this time. That does not work. Both of you are acting out of emotions, so don't get into a R discussion or about the future, etc. Play it cool and give vague answers so that she will still wonder what you are going to do.
You seem to have the idea of dropping the rope down pretty good. I tried to put it in some type of "picture" hoping it would help somebody. Here's the link to that post if you're interested.
