Don't want to sound negative & discouraging, but based on my own experience, don't rush into believing that she is through with OM just yet. The fact that she said what she did is good only if she meant it. However, I think you went down the road before and she simply was working to throw you off track and never stopped her A. I know, b/c I played the part. I learned how to take it deeper undercover. So, don't let your guard down. Stay tough b/c I think you'll discover that she will like that in a man.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!