I just dont get this AT ALL. She SWEARS she doesnt want to fight or argue, SWEARS she's committed to us working on our communications issues for the good of the kids, wants my help with things and then pulls these kind of stunts! I really feel like asking her if she really thinks this is the best way to motivate me!? I GUARENTEE if I pulled a similar stunt ( said I was taking the kids one place and then dropped off the face of the earth for hours on end she would be going ballistic !!!!)
I have bent over backwards to be kind, polite, validating, understanding, compassionate, etc,etc.
What is the point of this kind of behavior ?!?!?!?! Is this some kind of warped "test" ?? Seeing if I'll blow her phone up , rip her a new one, go looking for her, call the police ????
I am having a REALLY hard time reconciling this Dr Jekyl/Mrs Hyde routine.
