I think its kinda funny that some on here call me; callous, insensitive, not caring about other's feelings, mean, etc. I ask this question; If you really feel that way about me, what keeps you standing for someone who has REALLY hurt you? I am blunt and I do look at things from a different perspective. As for my life, I am not bitter, have I forgiven my XW? No, and I never will. Why? Because she left our 2 children, she has nothing to do with them. IMO she is not worthy of forgiveness. I am spiritual, God put someone wonderful in my life, I focus my attention on her now, not my XW. Sorry if that doesn't go along with some of your beliefs or ideas. As I have said time and again, if you want to stand forever, go for it, but if you are doing it for years and years with no progress, you are wasting your life.
