i know some of my triggers:

1. i have kids 24/7. only when i work do i not, as soon as done work im picking them up, getting home, dinner ect. i take care of house pets everything

he has NEVER done that with both kids. his mother cooks, cleans, does his laundry ect. for him. if i'm at work and he's at home with his mother he will just sleep if he wants to while the kids are there.

because of this if he gets to go home no responsibilities, hang out with friends, u know have a life. i see nothing but red.

ive asked him to take both kids- he will make excuses on why not to take them or blow up at me-basically starts an argument to not father both kids.


Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline