GRRRRRRRRR I am having to find levels of " patience " I didnt think existed ! The WAW took our DD for a check up at 1:30, something that should have taken no longer then an hour to an hour and a half MAX. She previously committed to returning in time to finish our session before she had to go to work. At 4:30 I called to find out if everything was ok, ( my truck that she is driving has been having minor problems ) " I'll be there soon ". She also KNOWS she has to go to the bank with me to take care of helping me deposit a check she exchanged to me for cash over the weekend ( stupid bank rule, they wont let me deposit it into my account unless she is present since we dont have a joint account ) Its now another 45 mins since last contact and nothing.
I feel this is incredibly rude and disrespectful, not only to me, but also to our counselor, who is generously taking time away from her family to help us with our communications issue's for FREE !!!
She did the same thing this morning, said she would be over in the AM and didnt bother to show up until the time she thought DD's appt was , leaving NO time for our discussion. But it backfired on her, since she misread my text about the appt time and was early by an hour.
She's stalling, plain and simple. And whats infuriating is I SOOOO want to blast her and call her on it, since its SOOOOO obvious, she's acting like Im some kind of idiot.
I dont know what her motives were for stalling this morning, however stalling in returning is DEFINETLY because I made it clear this afternoon that we needed to set a firm date about when I get my truck back. She whined about how all the kids couldnt fit in the OM's truck, and her's isnt on the road yet.
I also calmly let her know that yes I was in fact mad about some things. An observation the counselor brought up last week that I initially denied. Including that I was mad about feeling betrayed about her vow to NEVER have our kids go thru something like this and yet here we are.
My baby boy is sleeping, so screaming at the house is out,no one to call and rant to , no punching bag to wail on, ARRRGGGGGHHHHHHHH
