Long story short. My H is continuing a 4 yr. affair with an ex girlfriend. I found out 1yr. ago on our 14 yr anniversary. Since then H has been in and out of the house every 2 months (he leaves for a week then comes home after I beg)
Ok, well this last time he left, one week ago. I've been doing some of the DB tech. which seem to work when I stick to them. I also packed all of his things and left them on the porch (something I have never done)took all pictures down etc.
The first few days away were up and down. Id ignore him, he'd chase me, I'd talk to him, he'd run. So now he text me and says he loves me and the boys, he knows he wants to come home but he has to get this out of his system (one month) I never resonded. I'm going dark on him. Then the kids just talked to him and he wanted to talk to me. I said no, then he text me wanting to come over tomorrow because he misses me. I really want to bust this please advise
Last edited by seanna; 06/16/1009:26 PM.
M-43 H-44 M-16 T-19 S-10 S-8 left for OW 6/11/10 came back on 7/5/10 to present trouble in paradise again.... You know I'm a dreamer.........
