Yes I suspect he's only giving her half truths at best.. these people ARE trained for that, but she may not be that bright, who knows...

The fact that she hasn't reccomended a FT at this point or shown an interest in contacting you doesn't impress me...

To my mind even individual problems like your husband's are a FAMILY problem and you should be visitng her privately to find out how YOU can HELP her TREATING your HUSBAND.... Hello? lol

Sorry but these IC's who just try to work in secret and not get the family involved don't impress me at all...

I assume she has made no attempt to contact you whatsoever to work with your husband in his treatment?