Thanks for your ideas, everybody. I'll let you know what happens. He chased me for a solid year before I even let him kiss me, so maybe if he could do it once, he can do it again. Cross your fingers for me. He was such a good husband for so long - I miss him so much.
Discovered OW1: 1/10, H refused to talk. H moved in w 1st OW: 3/10 H cheated on OW1: 12/10 H left OW1, moved in w OW2: 4/11 D: 9/11 Still miss H. Don't understand, H just left, never even talked w me.
