But in my opinion if I were an IC and found out my paitent was having an affair I would insist they end it immeidately as it adversely impacts INDIVIDUAL progress... infidlity causes anxiety, paranoia, and a myriad of other brain strains ... the idea that you can treat someone for mental problems and just IGNORE the infidleity is ridiculous.
YES - this is what I've been thinking this whole time.. and naively thought trying to convince my H of this by appealing to his knowledge of his own disorder was the way to go.
I honestly think he has her hooked. He's awesome at telling health professionals exactly what they want to hear (apparently as well as his wife and ow) - been there when he's done, and I stopped it in its tracks when I could because that's not the way to get healthy.
She may not even know half the stuff he's really doing. So, either way this will help... confronting her will help expose H's lies and omissions, or help expose her ineptitude.
Me 32, H 34, DD 3 M 6, T 8 Bomb 03/10 OW Bomb 6/5/10 Separate & NC 6/28/10 My 2nd EA Thread
