Always record a confrontation... particularly with a professional.. if she slips up you have her and can report her to authorities... it may not come to much, but its nice to have it on tape that she blew you off...
If you can get her to work WITH your FT to compliment your Husband's treatment that is ideal... often clinics offer a full set of professionals and tehy would direct the patient to the other dr for the other probelms... But in my opinion if I were an IC and found out my paitent was having an affair I would insist they end it immeidately as it adversely impacts INDIVIDUAL progress... infidlity causes anxiety, paranoia, and a myriad of other brain strains ... the idea that you can treat someone for mental problems and just IGNORE the infidleity is ridiculous
