Thanks for the posts.
The funny thing is, at first I thought he was a WAS, then I started reading about MLC, & he has those symptoms. I went to my Dr because of my depression, I told him the situation.. The funny thing is the first thing my dr asked me after I told him, was if my husband's hair was thinning, then his age. Yes his hair is thinning. The Dr even said that it was most likely a MLC!
My dr then diagnosed me with Adjustment Disorder & put me on a anti-depressant and suggested I go for counseling. Which I plan on doing, for ME!

I had no intention of contacting the OW, my husband said that is "over" although "nothing happened". This past sunday SHE texted me and said that they had been "over for awhile" & she "thought it was strange to stay with someone for 4yrs and not be together"
According to my husband, we haven't had a "marriage" for 4 yrs! I believe he is rewriting our history, making it look worse than it really was!