YOu don't want to confront her without being prepared...
Also you want to find out what her credentails are and the limits of her license...
Regarding the family therapist, they OFTEN see invidduals to help the marriage since it is often that one doens't want to go.. MWD says this in her book outright... dealt iwth it all the time
YOU need to start gonig to set a GOOD EXAMPLE.. how can you expect your spouse to go if he doens't see YOU going and YOU improving as a result of your going...
When he sees you not gonig he thinks :
1. She isnt' gonig, why should I... 2. She isn't gonig, they can't be very helpful
