1. Prepare a script (always be prepared with a script) 2. Research her credentials and the constraints of her license 3. Record the conversation with a hidden device in your jacket or purse 4. Invite her to work WITH you to help this man rather than working in secret and contaminating your marriage
What she's doing now is in my opinion a violation of professional ethics in treating a man using IC knowing he's having an affair...
If YOU have a good FT you can have her refer THAT one...
