In addition, this T is a psychotherapist (ugh). They delve into feelings and history and all kinds of stuff that is not focused on solutions. I wish there was a T who would listen to both sides and then TAKE a side and tell the familywrecker that no, their feelings are NOT justified! Wake up!
My W confusingly asked, "Well, are you going to reschedule?" I said, "I don't know. This T doesn't seem to have much time in her schedule for us." And I left it at that. My W is probably thinking, "What the hell is he doing? He drags me into T and then walks away from it after one session."
But like you said, Coach, I dropped the rope. I am not going to hang myself.