One last thing: how did your husband get you talking again? My concern is that all of these leading emails of late, after weeks of not seeing one another, in which he was trying to get me to talk with him, *might have been his attempt to open up communications* - and I blew it.
He is shy - I keep thinking it must have been hard for him to have kept writing when I didn't really answer him except for the bare minimum response and didn't answer all of his questions, but he kept writing. And on Thursday he wrote he missed me and signed it, "Love, [his name]." I wonder if these emails and Thursday's letter WERE his attempt to talk...
Discovered OW1: 1/10, H refused to talk. H moved in w 1st OW: 3/10 H cheated on OW1: 12/10 H left OW1, moved in w OW2: 4/11 D: 9/11 Still miss H. Don't understand, H just left, never even talked w me.