k, so I've been holding off on going that route because I know ICs hate to work with the spouses (though my therapist I was seeing a couple months ago was more than willing to work with H).... which is yet another reason I don't think she should be talking to him about our marriage.

I will look into this ASAP, and I'm also looking up legal issues relating to mental health therapy in my state...I am torn between wanting H to know and not wanting him to know anything about it till it's already happened.... argh..... pros and cons to each way. He actually had an appointment with her today, so I know she's in the office. Wish I could just walk in today after his appointment is over, but I can't get away from home right now.

I need a virtual "HIT HEAD HEAR" sign.

Last edited by elvencat; 06/16/10 07:46 PM.
Me 32, H 34, DD 3
M 6, T 8
Bomb 03/10
OW Bomb 6/5/10
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