He's telling friends he thinks we'll reunite

[MarieC]

Also, congratulations, 4luv, that you two are reconciling. I wish you patience, wisdom, and the best of luck.

Re: my situation
He also knows I'm looking for a job in the States. Looking into moving back across the pond is certainly a sign that I'm moving on, I'd think.

Maybe he's happy with the bimbo. He's definitely smarter than she is, better educated, makes more money, etc. One thing that all of my male friends (including his best friend) have said is that maybe he couldn't deal with my making more money, having a higher rank (we're civil servants), speaking more languages, and having a better education than he does. It NEVER occurred to me that could be a problem to him as he never seemed to mind it and I certainly didn't care, but when you look at me and my life and Bimbo and hers.... He's definitely "affaired down," as some of the MLC literature calls it!