Well, we're coming up on a week of no contact from either side, so I guess I can just keep it up and see what happens. You know what MWD says about "do what works."
I don't pursue him, I don't call, I don't respond much. I think what I told him in my last note was pretty clear; if he doesn't want to talk, then I want to finish off the old life.
Can't file for divorce until mid-February - is that ever a wakeup trigger for them?
Discovered OW1: 1/10, H refused to talk. H moved in w 1st OW: 3/10 H cheated on OW1: 12/10 H left OW1, moved in w OW2: 4/11 D: 9/11 Still miss H. Don't understand, H just left, never even talked w me.
