This is something I don't have an answer to. Many who work with abuse victims will say no. In my own situation, my abuse happened many years when I was a teen and the guy who did it is long since gone (died in a car crash, only death - his fault, and it scared me how much I felt glad yet guilty for feeling that way at the same time). So I don't know.
This is a question I think you need to think about with the help of a professional AFTER dealing with your own issues first. I do think, personally, that trying to have a healthy relationship RIGHT NOW is impossible.
Me 32, H 34, DD 3 M 6, T 8 Bomb 03/10 OW Bomb 6/5/10 Separate & NC 6/28/10 My 2nd EA Thread
