Upside - thanks for the reply. My main thought at this point is that I'd like to think that before we'd actually proceed to divorce that we would at least make some attempt to fix the marriage. Whether my h will ultimately have that perspective remains to be seen.

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M - 46
H - 47
T - 20 yrs M - 19 yrs
DS 7yrs DS 6yrs DD 4 yrs
Bomb - 4/3/10
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