Hope it's ok if I hop onboard

[fudwoman]

Do you think this may be why you keep coming back around to not being together? Because neither of you has apparantly worked on what ever it is that is causing these feelings within you.

Honestly, if I were you, I would not want to attempt to reconcile right now, based on the track record, because you will come back to where you are now.

I do think we have worked on our stuff but as I said to J3B things have spiraled again - it's like weeding your garden - you can't say I weeded last year so now I'm good forever. The last time we 'weeded' was over 7 years ago. That's pretty long to just let things go. Having kids really brings a whole new set of challenges and we have been ill-equipped to deal with them in my opinion. I think we can have a better M with a bit of work - but I could just be daydreaming and I also know I can't do that alone.

Thanks for your input.

A