TH - Very well said...of course you are right...mind reading...poor communication....it's just mind boggling because all of the valid "problems" that he brought up after the affair were quite easily fixable if both partners wanted to. In addition he is of course inventing many "problems" that never existed before.
And the "ultimatum" conversation happened soon after the bomb...I don't even go there anymore....
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO